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You can't afford to be a looser!



You can't afford to be a looser 


I woke up this morning wanting to make use of the toilet, a sentence dropped to my mind, YOU CAN'T AFFORD TO BE A LOOSER!. 
I pondered on it for some minutes and I discovered that it is very easy to be a looser, all you have to do is quit and withdraw from whatever you are pursuing. But on the other hand it is very Expensive to live as a looser this is because people will not want to associate with you, and when this happens you will be restricted to some certain privileges and your cost of living will increase. If you don't believe try becoming a looser.

You can't afford to be a looser for the following reasons;


1. A loser sees difficulties in an opportunity. He focuses more on the pain than the gain.

2. A loser often uses the word 'What If' more than 'Why Not.'

3. A loser engages more discussions in 'Why I can't' rather than 'Why can't I.'

4. He imposes limits on himself. He waits for things to happen instead of making them happen.

5. A loser glorifies his past more than working on his future.

6. A loser has an oversized ego and always creates excuses for himself rather than blaming himself for his mistakes.

7. A loser believes failure is fatal. He lives life cautiously and avoids making mistakes.

8. A loser only helps himself to win. He takes more than he gives and thinks more about his gains than his losses.

9. A loser brags about his failure as though it is a badge of honour.

10. A loser commonly compromises principles to please others or to avoid trouble.

A loser is always afraid of losing.

Beware, as the saying goes, birds of a feather flock together. To prevent negative influence, always keep a distance from losers. But at the same time, take note of their mistakes and learn from them.

In conclusion the below poem will give you reason why you have to live on and not quit.

Before you were born,
And were still too tiny for
The human eye to see,
You won the race for life
From among 250 million competitors.
And yet,
How fast you have forgotten
Your strength,
When your very existence
Is proof of your greatness.
You were born a winner,
A warrior,
One who defied the odds
By surviving the most gruesome
Battle of them all.
And now that you are a giant,
Why do you even doubt victory
Against smaller numbers,
And wider margins?
The only walls that exist,
Are those you have placed in your mind.
And whatever obstacles you conceive,
Exist only because you have forgotten
What you have already
Achieved.
Poetry by Suzy Kassem

I am sure you don't want to be a looser anymore, because a looser makes no impact, he drains energy from any one he is close to, he discourages.

I hope this article is helpful, kindly leave a comment.



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